Another picture from this photoshoot by Caitlin.
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I’ve never really been a fan of blowing my own trumpet (well what did you think I meant?) so when I started to see folk trumpeting that they had been voted as one of the Top 100 Sex Blogging Superheroes of 2013, I decided against joining in. It felt just a little too smug and attention-seeking* for my tastes.
But it’s only just hit me that this is rather a silly attitude. For one thing, to be voted for anything by anybody is usually an honour and an achievement (unless it’s time to vote in a new village idiot) and it’s a trifle ungracious and rude to however many voted. Now I’ve no idea whether this is the top 100 out of 101 or out of 1001, but I’ve decided that by not mentioning my inclusion, I also lose the chance to thank those who voted for this blog.
So, without further ado, I would like to say a big THANK YOU to however many (great or small) voted for this blog in the above. I came 43rd, which I consider to be an achievement.
And 43 is a good number:
So all in all, I’m good with 43.
* Oh who am I kidding, I do attention seeking, especially when slutty!
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I have often been accused of playing with fire by those witnessing my interactions with a Domme. You see dear listener, I am not always the meekest or most grovelling of submissives (I know, you’re stunned) which apparently is what is sometimes expected or required. Somehow this accusation of playing with fire is meant to convey a warning; there is an implication that playing with fire might somehow be a bad thing.
Well tosh and tittle I tell you – playing with fire is fun and sexy and those of you who know something of me, know that I’m not averse to blowing things up on stage whenever I get the opportunity. I even trained at RADA don’t you know!
So you can imagine how delighted I was when a little kinky gathering turned into a little fire-play session – complete with that wonderful favourite of the stage illusionist, flash-cotton.
Obviously having tamed the beast that is, wild fire, I presented the gift to Mistress, who had conveniently stripped off (well I can’t think of any clothing fabric that mixes well with flames). No if you’re going to play with fire, you’re better to just strip off. Naked flames need naked people. (If that isn’t your local fire department’s motto, feel free to lobby for its use). So fun was had by all, even the ones that got a little bit burnt.
So a huge thank you to our hosts for providing a house that they didn’t mind risking and for both the means and the photographs from a great evening.
So, we borrow the TARDIS (as one does) to go visit Degas. This is what he paints.
Full HNT slideshow here.
I did this a couple of years ago and it seemed popular. So as I’m being incredibly organised this year with Christmas Cards, I thought I’d do it again.
I love sending Christmas cards. They spread joy and give Christmas that personal touch. And in an age where so many of our Christmas greetings are sent via a mass email or tweet or Facebook message, I think they are even more special. Many of you are regular readers who perve over this blog, you support it by making it worthwhile to write and you comment, often with your filthy thoughts :).
So if you like this blog and you are happy for me (Severin) to send you a Christmas card from the UK, just use the Christmas Card contact form and provide a name and address (it doesn’t have to be your real name but it would need to be a valid delivery address, which could be PO/mailbox etc.)
There is no catch, it will cost you nothing. Once each card is sent, the email will be deleted. It will of course, not be passed on to anyone.
So you want to be a submissive do you? You probably think it’s all about lying back comfortably whilst the Domme of your dreams does all manner of deliciously naughty things to you. Well here’s what they don’t tell you:
So given all this, you could be forgiven for wondering why we do it at all (well apart from the cake – coffee and walnut please). Well we do it because we love her and we love to please her. Naturally we gain no personal physical pleasure from it – we’re just all give.
Of course, in order to present a balanced picture, I draw your attention to a Domme’s point of view.
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